Are you recently engaged and already feeling stressed and overwhelmed about the wedding planning process? You're not alone. Many couples find themselves struggling to enjoy this special time because they're too focused on the details of their big day. But it doesn't have to be that way!

Here are five ways to fully embrace your wedding planning process and avoid a wedding-induced meltdown.

Take time to soak it all in.

One of the biggest mistakes couples make is diving into full planning mode as soon as they get engaged. Instead, take a moment to breathe and enjoy being engaged. Share the news with loved ones, celebrate, and take some time to simply be in this new phase of your relationship.

Shed your expectations.

Pinterest and social media have led many couples to believe that their wedding day should be the happiest day of their lives. But that's simply not true. Your wedding day is a milestone, but it won't necessarily be the happiest day you'll ever have. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to feel or look a certain way, and try not to stress over the small details.

Embrace the stress.

Planning a wedding is stressful, there's no doubt about it. But it's important to remember that stress can also be a good thing. It means you're excited about creating a unique and memorable experience for you and your guests. Even when things don't go as planned, try to view the challenges as opportunities for growth and creativity.

It's not just about you.

While your wedding day is certainly a celebration of your love, it's also a community event. You're not just joining together as a couple, but also as two families or communities. Remember to involve your loved ones in the planning process, and don't be afraid to ask for help. Your wedding day is a chance for everyone to come together and celebrate your love.

Remember the true meaning of your wedding day.

At the end of the day, your wedding day is about more than just the details. It's about celebrating love, community, and gratitude. Take time to acknowledge how far you've come, honour those who have helped you become who you are, and embrace the love and support of your family and friends. And don't forget to capture these special moments through photos and videos to cherish for a lifetime.

By keeping these tips in mind, you can fully enjoy your wedding planning process and avoid feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Remember, your wedding day is a celebration of your love, so take the time to enjoy it!

BONUS STEP:

Hold a planning meeting with your partner and anyone else involved in the process, such as your respective parents. This meeting should focus on discussing everyone's expectations for the wedding and ensuring that everyone is on the same page. This can help prevent miscommunications and misunderstandings later on in the planning process, leading to a smoother and more enjoyable wedding planning experience for everyone involved.

I will write a whole article about this planning meeting because it’s very important step that’s always overlooked by my clients.